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Are You Addicted to Mental Illness?
That’s Not How That Works.
In the aftermath of more celebrity suicides.
Suicide is not selfish.
Mental Illness is not an addiction.
An alcoholic can get treatment and abstain from alcohol, as difficult as it is.
A drug user can do the same.
Someone with mental illness can get treatment but cannot abstain from mental illness or its triggers. There is no cure for mental illness. One can get better with treatment, but that doesn’t mean life is “normal”. It’s work…every single day. It’s hard.
Some who have mental illness try to self-medicate with drugs or alcohol, to numb the pain. I believe that there are many addicts who suffer from mental illness and just don’t realize it.
After the news broke of Kate Spade’s completed suicide, I chatted with a woman online regarding the situation. She, and others, made it blatantly clear that Kate was being selfish because she had a daughter, and as a mother she should be putting her child first.